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What Should I Do?

Posted by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:14 PM
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Ok my best friend and I were talking on the house phone and my cell phone rang. She was complain about how fucked up her dude is who is locked up. It was a business call so I told her I would call her back.
Ok now when I said that she said don't bother calling her back like she had an attitude. Now she will get off the phone with me asap if her dude calls her from jail. But I don't get a f....ing attitude with her when she hangs up with me to talk to this low life looser.
Ok I called her back she didn't answer then called me bk only to hang up in my face. Now this is what I don't understand we both r adults living with our parents and our kids and our families both treat us f....d up. We both at the time don't have cars. Y if I'm not treating u f...ed up do u have an attitude with me for saying I will call u back? Please let me know what you think is best I should do?
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ikesmommy
by Silver Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:18 PM
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leave that trick alone...

wearymoon
by Bronze Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:20 PM

OMG. I hope someone can you give some legitimate advice, because personally, I would dump her as a friend. I have been there and done just that.

Captzsss
by Silver Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:24 PM

This

Quoting ikesmommy:

leave that trick alone...


ikesmommy
by Silver Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:28 PM


Quoting wearymoon:

OMG. I hope someone can you give some legitimate advice, because personally, I would dump her as a friend. I have been there and done just that.

And THAT, my dear, is legitimate advice!

hopealways4019
by Silver Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 2:31 PM
Some people are just petty. And one sided. They always want to have their way, and if they don't get it? Pop an attitude like a child.
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KymberleeAnn
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 3:36 PM
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Give her a few days then call her to check in to see if she's okay, she's upset right now, sometimes when a person is upset they don't think clearly and act irrationally, so just over look the little mishap, I'm sure she really did not mean it.  When you speak with her again I would not even mention it, no more than to say how are things going?  Are you feeling a little better?  If she say why? then I would say you seem to be a little upset the last time we spoke and I was just checking in to see how you are feeling today.

Then take it from there.

tanishagreene
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 7:52 PM

what is there to do?.....y'all are both friends right now y'all having a childish moment. give it a day or two and it'll blow over *shrugs*

KymberleeAnn
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:09 PM

Bump

Dabrutiful1
by Bronze Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:17 PM
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Naw...I do not do kid shit. Call back just to hang up? Y'all ain't screwin...so why does she have the ok to treat you like a shiesty dude who's cheatin on her? No ma'am...next time she heard from me it wld be because she called me. While she pying over some dude in the clink...I'd be makin moves with them business calls! When she wanted to whine bout that inmate, she'd have to catch me in the wind!!!
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LaceNBklyn
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:56 PM
Nothing, sometimes time and space does alot. Maybe she will call u first.
Maybe you will call her first but def let it blow over a bit
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