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Real Friend Or Jealous Friend

Posted by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 1:06 AM
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I have been friends with this girl for 5 years we both relocated
living in different cities. We"ve kept in contact.
on and off. I've noticed a change in her.
Usually she was positive and honest.
We both are in relationships. that of course
that could use some perfecting
I've always been supportive of her tough
times. I couldn't help but notice that
this friend of mine loves to be in competition
or feels like she's better than me.
example ;(my fiancée bought me a teacup
yorkie) ..her;girl please my dudes have
bought me so much pets, ??? (she lies about
having material things) puts any positivity about
my fiancée down(its not like he bought you a Mercedes
?????!) yet she says she can talk to me better than
her other friends. is it that or
does she look down on me and can talk
without trying to sugarcoat. but
still does at times i just ignore it. Being 7 months
pregnant I tend to get emotional at times
and leaned on her for support at times
She's tried to convince me to give. up
on my relationship/family. And told me to
leave my newborn with my fiancée. and move
on with life with other people.
she brags about her life and complains
all in the same breath. at the end of the day
I know our friendship has some
envy to it,for what logical reason I can't
come to grips. ladies would you
continue the friendship or disconnect
yourself..
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 1:06 AM
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Dabrutiful1
by Bronze Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 1:15 AM
1 mom liked this
Nope...be glad you didn't waste 10+ yrs like I did.
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dahlya21
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 1:44 AM
Quoting Dabrutiful1:

Nope...be glad you didn't waste 10+ yrs like I did.

10 years. of friendship....she's just too much I don't know when. she became like that. or is it because she's unhappy
KymberleeAnn
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:15 AM

Sounds like a hater to me... to be honest with you that don't even sound like a friend.

robynjavan7104
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 3:59 AM
I had a friend like that, key word had. She sounds like she's miserable and wants you to be too. I wouldn't be friends with someone who always tried to get me to leave my family.
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TrulyMicka
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 6:22 AM

 chics do that...its hate

wearymoon
by Bronze Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 6:58 AM
She doesn't sound like a friend. She's hating on you straight up and to the point.
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hopealways4019
by Silver Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 9:02 AM
Why would she tell you to leave your baby, she do sound like she jealous. I don't like negative people.
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madcat500
by Bronze Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 10:23 AM

something is wrong with her if it were me i get a new friend

DOMTITI
by on Dec. 11, 2012 at 10:24 AM

She is not your friend.. Let her goo.

nikabear
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 10:27 AM
I learned that you cannot call everyone your friend. There are alot of haters in the world and um your girl sounds like she has that hater disease.........wash your hands and move on!
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