Good morning Ladies!!!! Hope everyone is having a blessed day today. Okay so, my issue is that my dh and I have had a convo regarding my ss and seeing his mom. My ss has not seen his mom in 2 years and calls like once a month. She has recently had a baby and is expecting to make arrangements for ss to come and see her. The thing is is that she is not working and is not going to make any effort at all to get ss. So dh is taking it upon himself to plan to pay for ss to go and see her and the baby. Dh states that she just had a baby and she is not working so I am doing this for ss.
I do not agree with this at all. I think that she should meet dh half way especially money wise if she really wants to see her kid. Besides that, dh barely takes care of responsibilities at home without having to add this one. Dh says that I am selfish, but how am I selfish I am the one being there for my ss when she is not. Also I do not take 2 years for me to make arrangements for me to see my child. I barely let my child have sleep overs because I will miss them wayyyy too much. I think I should talk to her I am not for sure. But, I did tell dh if he plans to send him down there or pay for it that he can pack his stuff as well and go stay with bm and live out of her vehicle. IJS
Any insight on this at all ladies? Please give me input.