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Strawberry Letter 2/1/13

Posted by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 6:54 PM
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 Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a major problem. A long time friend of mine, who is married, came to me about 5 months ago and asked if I would engage in a "three way sexual act" with her and her husband. Now, my first instinct was HECK NO, but it didn't stay there. She went on and on about how this would save her marriage, and how she trusted me (being her friend and all) to not steal her man once it was over. And she was right. After the act, everything went back to normal, except now her husband keeps texting and emailing me. I've told him several times to leave me alone, i was only helping my friend but he is persistent in his efforts. Just when I thought it couldn't get any worst, I found out that I'm pregnant. They themselves have no children and this would be my first, but I definitely don't want this man's baby! I haven't told anyone yet and Im so uncertain on what to. Do I give it up for adoption to a stranger, keep it, or do I give it to them? I certainly didn't sign up for this. Please help. Signed, Conflicted friend.

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Litlmama87
by Silver Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:14 PM
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I just won't.

She let this man release all up in her?

Ugh.
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Krystle21
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:24 PM
^^^Right! I would've just told my friend no, she'd have to find some other way to save her marriage. Im mad she was confident about the friend not wanting her man but now her husband if chasing after the friend. Smh
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joschmidt
by Too Legit Schmidt on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:46 PM
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Simply3
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:48 PM

Wow, the answer would have been No to begin with...now she's pregnant?! 

MomRocs1102
by Gold Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:51 PM

They could have used protection.  She should have forwarded the messages from him to her friend with the subject (get your husband). If she wants the baby keep the baby to herself no ones business who the father is.  If she doesn't want the baby there are other options.  Could have been fun if they would have made so simple changes, and her husband wasn't a douche.

mrzsimmons322
by Crystal on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:54 PM
O.o no words
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motherlove220
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:54 PM
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I am going to stop short of calling her stuid. What made this women think that having a threesome would save her marriage? Why did you as her friend as her friend agree to do it? Now you say everything is back to normal, except that he is chasing you and you are pregnant. You got the short end of the stick. Smh
ayacocca
by Gold Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 9:04 PM
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Wow... he let it escape inside of her and not the wife.. this situation is *&%#@* on so many levels.
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Bunsmommy
by Ruby Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 9:17 PM
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Ughhhh, is she serious? First of all, I don't care how much begging and pleading she did that line shouldn't have been crossed. If their marriage was in that much trouble they needed to either seek the help of a therapist or God! The survival of their marriage should not have hinged on her vagina. She wanted to partake in that bullshit, plain and simple!
Then she joined in this bullshit with no condom? Oy vey!
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jaysmom2002
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 9:23 PM
Damn I had to read that twice to make sure I read it correctly. SMFH this can't be real!
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