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Dear Son, Fat meat is greasy.

Posted by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 10:35 AM
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And you're about to find out.


My 13 year old had the nerve to get an attitude with me because as we were walking down the stairs his ass was dragging his backpack for the 1700th time and so I said ---"Pick up the back pack."

This fool picked it up and raised it over his head with a straight arm. So I told him that he had to carry it that way all the way to the car and not to lower it until we got inside the car.


How are you going to get an attitude with me after I have told you a mutha effn gazillion times!!???!!


And now he wants to go ice skating with his boys-----So sorry busta.


How long does this stank phase last. It doesn't help that my husband is out of town on business either.


I know I could be dealing with a lot worse----but I can't stand no attitude having adolescent!!!

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Some people recognize the light but they can't handle the glare.

by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 10:35 AM
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meka26
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 10:40 AM

DD (9) has had an attitude lately. She is really trying my patience. I had to threaten her life a few days ago, lol. It worked, but i'm dreading the teen years. I may end up in jail.

wearymoon
by Bronze Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:56 AM
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From my experience, that attitude is going to last throughout all of the teenage years. He's testing his manhood limits with his parents.  Some days will be super while other days will be so so bad that you'll be questioning your parenting skills and his common sense. Have tons of patience is the best I have for you.

Dana267
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:18 PM

I hear you! I tell my children that NOBODY is cooperative with a person who has a nasty attitude all the time---especially one that is not justified.

Quoting meka26:

DD (9) has had an attitude lately. She is really trying my patience. I had to threaten her life a few days ago, lol. It worked, but i'm dreading the teen years. I may end up in jail.


http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/304209_10150825901365230_520415229_21054590_61191322_n.jpg

Some people recognize the light but they can't handle the glare.

Dana267
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:19 PM

Thanks for the honesty in your response----scared the hell out of me BUT thanks!


Quoting wearymoon:

From my experience, that attitude is going to last throughout all of the teenage years. He's testing his manhood limits with his parents.  Some days will be super while other days will be so so bad that you'll be questioning your parenting skills and his common sense. Have tons of patience is the best I have for you.


http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/304209_10150825901365230_520415229_21054590_61191322_n.jpg

Some people recognize the light but they can't handle the glare.

wearymoon
by Bronze Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 1:00 PM

 LOL sorry :)  Sometimes my honesty is overbearing, even to me.


Quoting Dana267:

Thanks for the honesty in your response----scared the hell out of me BUT thanks!


Quoting wearymoon:

From my experience, that attitude is going to last throughout all of the teenage years. He's testing his manhood limits with his parents.  Some days will be super while other days will be so so bad that you'll be questioning your parenting skills and his common sense. Have tons of patience is the best I have for you.



 

nikabear
by Platinum Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 1:22 PM
It's only the beginning!!! Wait until he hits 16 and really starts to smell himself.....I am ready to choke my 16 year old!!!
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Dana267
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 2:19 PM

Please don't have me on the news LAWD!


Quoting nikabear:

It's only the beginning!!! Wait until he hits 16 and really starts to smell himself.....I am ready to choke my 16 year old!!!


http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/304209_10150825901365230_520415229_21054590_61191322_n.jpg

Some people recognize the light but they can't handle the glare.

Stacey1081975
by Gold Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:43 PM
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14 -16 the worst years ever but we survived and you will too...The only advice I can give is stick to your word because they always think you are playing with them.

nikabear
by Platinum Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:18 PM
Girl teenagers are something else!!! And mine my daughter just got her drivers permit........


Quoting Dana267:

Please don't have me on the news LAWD!


Quoting nikabear:

It's only the beginning!!! Wait until he hits 16 and really starts to smell himself.....I am ready to choke my 16 year old!!!



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DOMTITI
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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I have discovered the age starts at about 13 to about 16. It seems like its getting better and 18 hits!!! Stay strong! I am one snide, snarky comment from catching a case at times. 

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