Regret it? I did today just now. I was in the January2013 moms group and i click on a post and the mom says shes leaving the group because she just lost her daughter to SIDS. This made me sad and fearful. I worry about things like this(when you have a new baby you tend to worry about everything) but lately so many babies are passing from sids my moms friend just buried her baby. It just makes me nervous. I just hate reading about things like this. All i could say to her was how sorry i was for her loss. I stare at my dd sleep and I check on ds while he is sleeping. I function on a few hours of sleep a day, make 4 hours max.