Is is appropriate to ask the person in your life how many sexual partners they have had? Has your partner or a ex partner asked you? Were you honest or did you tell them a number you thought they wanted to hear? Personally i feel rather hes been with 1 woman or 50 women it was before me, and its not really my business. As long as health wise he has taken care of himself and i have taken care of myself. The past is the past, Dh and i have had this talk, but its not important to me.