Have you ever prayed for God to change your heart against something? If so what was it?
How long did it take for you to feel differently about it?
I'm struggling with a friend who keeps going back to a loser and it makes me look at her like she's an idiot and she has low self esteem. I do not hang around women who are not confident and allow themselves to be abused----but this is a dear friend and I know she needs me.
I look at her as pathetic and I don't want to do that because I know that God doesn't want us to feel that kind of contempt in our hearts. It's like my one pet peeve is a wimpy whiny woman who allows herself to be abused until she has NO self esteem.
Some people recognize the light but they can't handle the glare.