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OKAY!!! What reaction was she expecting?!!!

Posted by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:03 PM
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Friend calls says i need to talk to you

response: okay, when

she says: Now

friend comes over and says she cheated on her boyfriend

response: Ok confess and ask for forgiveness and hope he forgives you

 friend says: thats not it, it was with your ex!!! 

response: OOOKKKAAAYYY, not really knowing what to say just looking

friend says:  that's not it, im pregnant and i am sure your ex is the father, by the date if im correct.  Im so sorry then says I am carrying your child sibling.

response:  sorry my child's sibling is with me, other than that my child doesnt have any other siblings

she gets mad and says:  how can you not claim my child as your childs sibling they will be siblings

response:  that is your baby with him nothing to do with us!!! you came here to tell me this and ask my forgiveness but its turning into you expecting me to fully support you, and be a family like nothing has happened.

friend is now pissed and seemed shocked like she was expecting something else to happen.  

personal feelings leave us out of this completely!!!  What would you ladies do in this situation? dream

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Hottmomma607
by Group Mod - Trica on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:12 PM
Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.
But WOW!! o_O
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diaperstodating
by Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:15 PM
First she wouldn't be my friend anymore.
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MomRocs1102
by Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:17 PM

dont have to claim, or be bothered with a child or the parents if they dont want, yep wow

Quoting Hottmomma607:

Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.
But WOW!! o_O


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MomRocs1102
by Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:17 PM

so very true

Quoting diaperstodating:

First she wouldn't be my friend anymore.


leaniece
by Platinum Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:19 PM
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That's what I was thinking, they would be half brothers or sister. Thats crazy that she would get mad at YOU. Don't she have more to worry about... Like her boyfriend she cheated on!



Quoting Hottmomma607:

Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.


But WOW!! o_O


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MomRocs1102
by Silver Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:21 PM

no marriage just bf

Quoting leaniece:

That's what I was thinking, they would be half brothers or sister. Thats crazy that she would get mad at YOU. Don't she have more to worry about... Like her marriage!


Quoting Hottmomma607:

Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.

But WOW!! o_O


leaniece
by Platinum Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:24 PM
Oh okay. Maybe she needs some time to cool off. That's a sticky situation to get into smh.


Quoting MomRocs1102:

no marriage just bf

Quoting leaniece:

That's what I was thinking, they would be half brothers or sister. Thats crazy that she would get mad at YOU. Don't she have more to worry about... Like her marriage!





Quoting Hottmomma607:

Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.


But WOW!! o_O




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jaysmom2002
by on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:39 PM
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Whoa!! I'm speechless. All I have to say is she was never a friend to begin with
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Hottmomma607
by Group Mod - Trica on Feb. 28, 2013 at 10:44 PM
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Right!
Ain't nobody got time for that!


Quoting leaniece:

That's what I was thinking, they would be half brothers or sister. Thats crazy that she would get mad at YOU. Don't she have more to worry about... Like her boyfriend she cheated on!






Quoting Hottmomma607:

Girl I don't even have any words! But if this baby is your ex's the child would be half-sibiling.



But WOW!! o_O



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specialwingz
by Member on Feb. 28, 2013 at 11:10 PM
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Regardless of all the adult "issues", the children will be half-siblings.  They should have a relationship with their siblings.  They should not have to suffer due to the adults who can't get along.

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