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No Sex

Posted by on Mar. 1, 2013 at 9:09 PM
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had my 6week appt on the 22nd and i still don't want anything to do with sex.  I am terrified of sex and im sure its new to dh because i was jumping him sometimes more than once a day now nothing.  I have no desire and its been 7 weeks now.  I keep seeing women do post saying they have been having sex sense 3 weeks pp im like wth!! how soon after did you moms get back to your usual routines?

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Hottmomma607
by Group Mod - Trica on Mar. 1, 2013 at 9:21 PM
Oldest I was single so more than 6weeks after.
After DD DH&I tried before 6weeks not happening and DS 3weeks.
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leaniece
by Platinum Member on Mar. 1, 2013 at 9:27 PM
For me, as soon as possible after each pregnancy! 4-6 weeks the doctor told me. I was ready at 3 but I waited like a good lil girl :D
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kandipie22
by on Mar. 1, 2013 at 9:33 PM
Before my check up! SMFH
mrsary
by Gold Member on Mar. 1, 2013 at 9:40 PM
Oh... so that's how you & hubby have 4 kids back to back. Lol


Quoting leaniece:

For me, as soon as possible after each pregnancy! 4-6 weeks the doctor told me. I was ready at 3 but I waited like a good lil girl :D

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TrulyMicka
by Gold Member on Mar. 1, 2013 at 11:18 PM

 I was like thay after all of my kids..i dont know how it came back...i guess i just finally gave it up tp shut him up!! but i def waited my 6-8 weeks....then i think i lied & said he said to wait another weekor two

leaniece
by Platinum Member on Mar. 1, 2013 at 11:30 PM
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Exactly!! I finally just ended up getting the tubes tied. Now I got no worries.... :D


Quoting mrsary:

Oh... so that's how you & hubby have 4 kids back to back. Lol




Quoting leaniece:

For me, as soon as possible after each pregnancy! 4-6 weeks the doctor told me. I was ready at 3 but I waited like a good lil girl :D


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Babujai
by Silver Member on Mar. 1, 2013 at 11:48 PM
3 months after the first baby. Maybe 2 months after the second/last baby. Sex was no where near the top of my list of priorities and I was also scared. Nothing down there felt good and I doubted anything DH had to offer would make it feel better.
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rayroe2
by on Mar. 2, 2013 at 12:32 AM

 I was 3 weeker this time but this was my second. My first I waited the full 6wks. I keep trying but nothing was happen, my body wasnt ready.

4kings1queen
by Silver Member on Mar. 2, 2013 at 2:58 AM
Im still sexless in the city. My tubial is this month(yay). I cant wait.
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hopealways4019
by Silver Member on Mar. 2, 2013 at 9:36 AM
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Have sex when you decide your ready.
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