I'm getting ready to move almost four hours from my home state. I'm now married and have a baby on the way. DH moved to my home state but he's ready to go because there's more opportunities and jobs where he was. My ex is getting ready to retire and move 10-14 hours away with his new family. He said that when I move he wanted to get the kids at least every other month but I think that's just too much. So I informed him that I was going to get my lawyer to draw up another agreement, which he gets the children during Spring Break, Father's Day weekend, Summer Break(4 weeks), Thanksgiving and Christmas. Well he doesn't want me to get a lawyer; however, he's had one for the past three years stressing me out but never winning the case.
I just want everything done like it should be. If some of you may recall, his wife really doesn't want the kids around and she scratched our DDs face and he fractured our DDs pinkie. My DH thinks that the schedule I have is great and that when my ex moves 10-14 hours away, the kids won't be able to go every two months. He's moving to TX, GA or AL.
Would you get lawyer? I personally know from experience that him and his wife can't be trusted.
on Jun. 17, 2013 at 4:08 PM