Why question a child when the parents are present?
I have a cousin who is the extremely negative spirit he lives to bring drama to others. He walks around with a dark cloud over him, and when he comes around i am sure to not get close to him. Well yesterday he came over my moms, but came in through the back door so i didn't see him come in. He corners my son asking where we live (cousin is almost 40 and my son is 8). He has been asking where we live for almost a yr now, and i refuse to give him personal information about us. So he presses my son with the you can trust me, im your cousin, you can tell me, and at first my son is like i cant tell you, no, then he tell him. At that point my cousin is satisfied he has what he wants. Months ago he says to me at a family dinner 'I finally got your number' I never found out who gave it to him. He just makes it his business to find out whatever he can about me and my family. Its irritating, and makes me worry what is his motive. I am trying to change for the better forgive people and love all. I will be honest he is one of the ones i am having a hard time forgiving, loving or even wanting around me. My aunt gave me the his your cousin you have to deal with him, and just be cordial i cant, and i don't feel i have to(the bible says love, and forgive it doesn't say i have to be buddies)