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what would you do in this situation?

Posted by on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:17 PM
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Your dh/so joins a local gym and begins meeting new friends. he, along with the guys, decide to get together at your house for the game on Saturday; you agree to get some wings and other treats together. Game time! in walks the guys, & one of the guys is a guy that you were intimate with 2 yrs before you got into your current relationship. do you tell your man, or let the past be the past?
by on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:17 PM
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Sigmalade
by Bronze Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:22 PM

I have let mine pass.

babyblue415
by bubbles on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:25 PM
Tell . Better he here's from.you then the guy
AlliviasMommy
by Silver Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:29 PM
Tell him, or he'll be on you about why you didn't!
big.city.mama
by Bronze Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 9:54 PM
I totally agree if you have nothing to hide tell it it was before him.

Quoting AlliviasMommy: Tell him, or he'll be on you about why you didn't!
moosesmom
by Silver Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 10:00 PM
I would definitely tell him. I wouldn't ever want him to look "stupid" in a situation.
Mommabearbergh
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 10:10 PM
Dh has seen me have a oh shit moment and weird moments I have introduced them mostly because dude was like "hey *insert real name ". I rather tell him myself then dude.
MomRocs1102
by Gold Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 10:25 PM

tell him.

mom2kortni
by Silver Member on Mar. 6, 2014 at 11:22 PM
Tell him.
Pink.Sunshine.
by on Mar. 7, 2014 at 1:05 PM
Tell him, weeks after they've left your house. Don't do it that day!
fatcat0908
by on Mar. 7, 2014 at 1:07 PM

What's the big deal?  Certainly your husband realizes that you have had relationships prior to him. 

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