So two friends of mine got into a huge debate about one wanting to throw her own baby shower. What do you think about this?
One said if the other throws her own baby shower it's like asking people for gifts. The other said she is throwing her own baby shower so that it is done the way she wants.
I say, throw your own shower. Some people don't have girlfriends or family members just laying in wait to plan a shower. And some just don't know what to do. If you want it done right, do it yourself. Yes, years ago it was considered bad etiquette, but now who cares. People are going to bring gifts regardless of who throws it. This time is to celebrate the newest addition, who cares who plans it.