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If you cosleep, please answer!

Posted by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:35 PM
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How do you get intimate time? How does that work exactly? Have you lost alot of this time with your partner because of bed sharing or cosleeping?
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Suz_and_Ash
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:36 PM
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We only bedshare part of the night, if at all.  It depends on if Annie wakes up to eat.  Her cradle is right beside the bed, and it only happens when she is asleep in the cradle.  Heck, it really just doesn't happen too often regardless.

HarvisonM
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:36 PM

I'm curious about the same thing. i bedshare right now but hubby is deployed so I don't get any loving right now anyways lol. he will be home when lo is about 2 months so....

aydens_mom620
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:37 PM
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 There is always the couch... 

deccaf
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:37 PM

I cosleep. At first, it was a cosleeper next to the bed.  If DD was sound asleep, we could quietly go about it (She was less than 6 months.) Now, she starts in her bed and comes in ours after her first wake up of the night, so we get time to ourselves.

deccaf
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:38 PM
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Or the kitchen, bathroom, closet, laundry room, garage, etc. 

Quoting aydens_mom620:

 There is always the couch... 


muslimahmommy
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:41 PM

I move DS when we want alone time to his crib or swing.

mamabens
by Miranda on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:41 PM

We waited until the nights when the kids stayed with my parents.  or we would  leave them with my parents for an afternoon before the youngest would go overnight.

Johariz
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:42 PM

this.... makes it a little more fun to be creative like this as well.

Quoting deccaf:

Or the kitchen, bathroom, closet, laundry room, garage, etc. 

Quoting aydens_mom620:

 There is always the couch... 


wait... closet? lol! That'd be interesting.

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jmichael313
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:44 PM
when DD was waking every 3 hours to eat it wasnt possible lol but she is a little over 2 months now and we are intimate nearly every night. i bathe, dress her in her pj's (which is a onsie and a blanket sleeper [i use the same sleeper every night...but i wash it evryday] she knows this sleeper means night night time) lay in the bed and feed her around 9 or 10pm and once she is asleep she is transferred to her crib which is in our room. and about the past 2 weeks or so she has been sleepin till around 5 or 6 am. her morning routine is when she wakes daddy gets her and changes her and then she is back in bed with mommy to eat and begin the day :)
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annaica
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:45 PM
So is it hard to just leave baby in the bed? I get nervous about that lol

Quoting deccaf:

Or the kitchen, bathroom, closet, laundry room, garage, etc. 


Quoting aydens_mom620:


 There is always the couch... 



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