Im so frustrated!! I'm at work. I work FT and DH stays home with DD. she is 10 week now. Every week he dips into the frozen supply. I think we have 25 oz frozen. I pump at work, but my 11-13 oz of pumped milk doesn't seem to be enough. She Throws up every other week and lots gets wasted when she drinks out of a bottle. I have suggested he read about bottle feeding BM several times and even bookmarked the kellymom page about it for him. He keeps doing things that waste milk. Today we finally got into a huge fight about it. He just hung up on me. He said he never wants to talk about this again and he's doing the best he can...I just need to pump more. Why can't he just read the damn web page and find tips to preserve the BM and not over feed???? Sorry about the rant - I'm just so pissed that I want to go buy so formula and stop this argument. But I know that's not fair to DD. I hate being hooked up to a damn machine 4 hs a day. I wish he could work and I could stay home but I make so much more money than him that it doesn't make sense. His suggestion: pump more. Mine: preserve the supply and stop over feeding. Ugh. Advice? Am I being too critical?
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