emotions advice please

[candiceclark]

My son is 7 months. Being a single mom is very hard me an is dad was together for 5 years but we are not together because he cheated I still have feelings for him sometimes I want to tell him how I feel then there are times I don't we went our own ways 6 months ago we have so much in common an everytime we are together we have a lot to talk about I try to talk to other people but I feel wrong to do so is that normal I do not know were he stands but my feelings ufor him is there. It is a crazy feeling never been here before there are days I think about him an there are days I don't. Just weird. Any advice

[tabi_cat1023]

Cheating doesnt have to be the end of a relationship, depends on the couple, the cause of cheating and if both people are willing to stay commited to each other. Its not wrong of you to still have feelings. It wouldnt be wrong if you even got back together. People make mistakes. I know a couple that divorced only to remarry five years later lol

[kate_m.]

I agree with pp! It doesn't have to be the end and if you two were to decide to get back together its ok. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and have a 3 month old as well as a 4 year old and I couldn't imagine not talking to him and telling him things! I guess what I'm trying to say is being together that long and sharing a child together, you two have a bond and one that won't go away for a very long time, I wish you the best though!

[gdiamante]

While cheating doesn't have to be the end... if there's a track record of it that's a huge red flag. Counseling before you let him move back in, so the two of you can work out what the issues were that led to the cheating and you can decide whether you're really wanting him back or you're just lonesome. Don't take him back merely because you're feeling lonesome. Loneliness causes mistakes. Make yourself not-lonely without a man... find out who you are and what makes you shine all on your own. Your life partner should make you sparkle more brightly but should not be the main source of your spark.