I was not prepared for his lack of desire for a prego body. He fou d the bump to be a big turn off. He also finds bf to be a turn off.
As for me,....when i was prego i had to initiate sex and it was lack-luster.
Now he doesnt get to close to the boobies lest they explode and spray bm everywhere which must taste like dragon piss and be poisonous to adults...right
A little background.....we usually start out with making love then we get into it and end up "fucking".
Well he told me "i just cant do that with someone who is pregnant".
During delivery i tore terribly and sex was very painful after for a few months. This really put him off. He said he didnt want to hurt me and boy did it hurt at first. Then things got a little better, but he avoids the girls like the plague. I have talked to him about how that makes me feel and he says he cant help it. He has no desire to accidently get a drop of milk on him or near him....ooooh what could happen. Its not battery acid after all.
Just before baby came i begged for sex to try to get labor going. He flat refused and said "i dont wanna be responsible for that" after a few days and mw whining continually for some relief we had the worst sex ever and he pulled out. I was pissed. Why couldbt he just help me out? After all i was miserable. He scoffed and said he had already told me no.....about helping the labor along.
Now if we are going to ttc aget another couple years of this shit. It sounds aweful, but i am ready for another baby. I dont want big age differences and i also want a damn sex life.