Hw many kids do you want? How many kids do you have? Why did you choose what you have chose?
I have 3 kids and I really want more. I have heard from some moms who are in the same situation as me and would like more kids. I have heard from other moms who have had however many and are completely done....no question in their mind....they are done! I have a 5 1/2 yr old, 4 yr old and a 22 month old. I thought I would just want two. I always knew kids were hard work, but never knew the extent until I had my own. I never knew how much sleep I would loose, and how I would long for some quiet time, and some adult conversations being a sahm. Yet, I never knew how in love with each kid I would be, and the joys of hearing their laughing and playing. I never knew how much those cuddles and kisses would mean....I never knew that it would feel so wonderful to be their mom, someone who no could ever replace. Evern with all of this, how hard it is, and how great it is, I still want more, and I dont' know if I ever will feel done. I think I may always also wonder if there is someone missing because we decided to stop having kids. Does that make sense? Where do you stand? What are your thoughts on family size and your reasoning or feelings?