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Anyone have their breasts lose their "sexuality"?

Posted by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:02 PM
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I had my 3rd child 6 mo. ago and exclusively bf all of them.  During bfing and for awhile after I don't want my husband to touch my breasts.  He is understanding, but wishes it were different.  Once I breatfeed they are no longer a sexual organ to me.  I almost feel violated if he tries to slip in a quick grab.  Anyone else feel this way? 

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daydreamer86
by Bronze Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:05 PM
I never liked my boobs to be played with.
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amiesmomma
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:05 PM
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I did with my first. But now it doesn't bother me
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mama02040608
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:06 PM
In the beginning, yes. As time went on, they went back to their old functions :)
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sofia0587
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:07 PM
Yes they're so sad looking now its depressing :(
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booboo1103
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:11 PM

It took almost 4 yrs. after my 2nd child to get over it, now I'm nursing my 3rd.  My poor husband thinks he is doomed!!  :)

 

Young_Mommy89
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:12 PM
I'm hoping my boobs don't get all saggy =( but I would let him play if he wanted
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momma2b2008
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:12 PM
My DH never really liked my boobs to begin with, so it was never an issue.
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Nicolle_09
by Silver Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:13 PM

only for a couple months, but it doesnt bother me anymore

TheBabyFactory4
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:13 PM
For the most part I don't want dh touching them. Only in the middle of action will I willing let him touch. It annoys me soo much cuz he's obsessed with them. He's always trying to touch them. And say "oh I was just trying to help him latch on" or some shit like that. Ugh!!!
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JamieLyn822
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 10:13 PM
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Yes I feel the exact same way. I can't stand for them to be touched in a sexual way while bfing. Or even looked at sexually. It feels disgusting. I wish it wasn't that way but I just can't get past it. I am bfing my second child and it has been like this both times.
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