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I need some help please...

Posted by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:22 AM
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So I had my third baby on July 31st. I haven't been able to breastfeed my older two. I didn't try with my oldest and with my middle son he dropped so much weight that I ended up switching to formula. 

So now with my third son I thought we were doing well. Everything was going good. He was having the right amount of dirty diapers and had gained some weight. But all of a sudden it seems like I have no supply or he's just not getting the milk. He weighed 6 lbs 13 oz at birth and when I weighed him today he's 6lbs 2 oz. That's down even lower than 3 or 4 days ago when I weighed him. He's constantly fussy and will only nurse for 5 to 10 minutes at a time. It doesn't even seem like he's swallowing anything. I don't hear anything. Oh and his diaper output is definitely down too. 

I'm at my wits end and don't know what to do. I want to actually succeed this time but I'm ready to go to formula because I'm scared for him to drop more weight. Is there something I should be doing that I'm not? Any advice? Tips? 

Posted by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:22 AM
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mostlymaydays
by Group Mod-Stacy on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Has he ever been checked for a tongue tie?
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MonkeyPeanut79
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:49 AM

No because he seemed to be nursing fine at first. 

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Has he ever been checked for a tongue tie?


gdiamante
by Group Mod - Gina on Aug. 18, 2012 at 12:11 PM
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Where are you weighing him? If it's a home scale, ignore all the data. Home scales are notoriously inaccurate; I can get three different weights on a home scale in five minutes, without making ANY changes except stepping on and stepping off.

With a birth weight of 6/13, I wouldn't expect him to have even hit 6/8 just yet... week one is loss week, gain starts at a rate of 4-6 ounces per week in week two. You're in the middle of week three. 

And all of that is presuming it was a vaginal birth. 

How many dipes? A wet = 4 tb water poured into the dipe. You should also be seeing two quarter sized poops a day. 

I'm not concerned about not hearing swallows. I never heard a single swallow in 26 months. Not ONE. 


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