furious with dh!! *UPDATE* hes not so stupid WHEW!!
So, i came home last night, noticed all my milk GONE and asked him where it was. He was half asleep on the couch and said he threw it all away. This morning when i started yelling at him he said he took it to FILs house because "that gross-nasty bm was taking up too much space in our freezer". Yes, i called FIL and talked to his gf (she bf all her kids until 2 and supports me donating) so im much more calm but wish he would've talked to me first. I am relieved its not thrown out!! He DID dump the 18 oz in the fridge because (apparently) he tried giving ds a bottle warm, lukewarm and cold, then put the cold bm in a sippy. All to which ds refused. So he says i need to stop pumping at work, he expects ds off boob all together at a year and then won't allow it (we'll see how that turns out!). I need some research to print out for this male as he clearly doesn't understand child nutrition. Im relieved he knew enough to not just DUMP those 200 oz!! Huge sigh of relief