I Think I Know the Answer But Correct Me If I'm Wrong
I'm 9, almost 10wks pregnant with baby #2. Our dd will be 3 in January and she still nurses, but only in the mornings. And if I'm being honest, half the reason she still nurses in the morning is because it affords me an extra 30min or so of sleep. Occasionally she'll ask for it after she's woken up too early from her nap, and I lay down and nurse and nap with her.
I've had a couple people ask me how I plan to stop before the second trimester so the nipple stimulation doesn't cause problems. I never know how to answer that, these people never nursed and trust what their dr's say about it. And no I'm starting to wonder if I should stop soon.
I've read so many moms on here say you don't have to stop but I feel like I'm still going for purely selfish reasons and I don't even know if she's getting milk anymore. I just want to do right by BOTH kids. I don't want to stop dd before she's ready. I don't know if I have it in me to tandem nurse either. I'm just getting nervous and need some educated answers before y dr's appt on Tuesday, should this come up.