XDH and I have officially been divorced for 3 months, our youngest DD just turned 1 around the same time. I believe in self weaning. We have been very fair about custody with the kids but we've run into a problem. I in no way want to keep our children from him but IDK what to do in this situation and am seeking advice. I allow DD to nurse whenever she chooses, and have never restricted her on this nor have I ever given her cows milk or any other milk besides my own. XDH knows how I feel about that, we have had 3 previous children together all of whom self weaned at different ages well past 1 year. While packing the kids bag I included several containers of hand expressed breast milk in a cooler for DD, she takes it well from a sippy cup. When the kids returned the containers were all still full, I asked him why he didnt use the breast milk and he said he wasn't going to put up with that **** anymore and that shes old enough to not be so attached to me. Im not quite sure how to approach this situation, we've been fine up until now and I certainly dont want to make a huge deal out of something that maybe is only my personal issue. So what do you ladies think? big deal or get over it?