with my dr being so unhappy about my ds weight gain and pushing formula, including filling out wic paperwork saying both and saying he needs a special kind with more calories to help him gain weight, i have been doing research. i have found that according to the who chart he is BARELY under what he should be. if im reading it right he should be 7 lbs he is 6lb13oz. how do i bring this up to my dr or should i even bother will he even listen? im so lost right now i dont want my baby to have formula but my self esteem is so low after all these problems in the last 6 weeks. im really feeling like i cant do the one thing women are meant to do. like im not good enough for my baby and neither is my milk. i still havent given him any formula but my resolve is weakening i just want whats best for my baby. im sick of hearing oh hes so tiny and how many days is he? seriously some babies are just small so y make me feel bad about it?