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Feel gross for asking :-(

Posted by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:42 PM
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OK so...I've been wanting to ask this for a while and have been kind of embarrassed lol! When DH and I start our sexy time...my breasts play a big role in me getting turned on. Yes, I can get excited other ways but my breasts are so sensitive I can nearly O just from him playing with my nipples...now...I'm going to start BFing with this baby. Is it still possible for my SO to do this or is he going to get a mouth full of milk every time??
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SadieJames
by Sarah on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:44 PM
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It could go either way.  Some people have a let down at any and all stimulation and some don't.  But also a lot of men don't mind : ). You'll figure it out mama! And don't be embarrassed - this is a kind group : )

MusherMaggie
by Platinum Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:45 PM
Keep a towel handy--you might squirt!
maggiandmike
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:46 PM
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It just depends. I'm a sprayer. Hubs doesn't mind. ;)
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DragonMother10
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:49 PM
It depends. Sometimes my hubby has to open wide or grab something haha. There have been times where nothing comes out because I just nursed my son an hour before.
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gsdlover
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 8:57 PM

Not TMI.  Anyway, I have always been in a similar boat as you.  I can't O at all without my boobs.  DH doesn't mind the taste of milk (even grown to like it after 6 years of it lol), so it hasn't been a problem for us.

xtina8817
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 11:21 PM
Thank you ladies...I've really been worried. Do a blot of men not mind it?? Do any of you have hubbys that won't "touch it"? I'm scared he'll freak. He's not one to be easily grossed out...just me being worried
xredstarsx
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 11:23 PM
Mine won't touch them but I don't want him to anyway. They are for my son right now.

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Thank you ladies...I've really been worried. Do a blot of men not mind it?? Do any of you have hubbys that won't "touch it"? I'm scared he'll freak. He's not one to be easily grossed out...just me being worried
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proudmama11212
by on Feb. 1, 2013 at 11:26 PM
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My hubby dont mind i usually let him know that im having a letdown so he wont get sprayed!!
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Mrs.Brugger
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 11:27 PM

i have no advice =[

i havent had bra-less sex in...well. Since before DD was born lol

Mrs.Brugger
by Bronze Member on Feb. 1, 2013 at 11:27 PM

eh. just talk to him about it, see how he feels, and if you feel let-down coming, give him a heads up =]

Quoting xtina8817:

Thank you ladies...I've really been worried. Do a blot of men not mind it?? Do any of you have hubbys that won't "touch it"? I'm scared he'll freak. He's not one to be easily grossed out...just me being worried


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