So for Valentine's my SO is taking me on a nice dinner. My family was going to watch our 6mo dd but he told his mom she could. BIG PROBLEM HERE. His mom hasn't ever agreed with me bfing her. She thinks it is wrong and has tried to sabotage it from the get go. I don't have the choice of saying she can't watch her now without causing a HUGE fight between me and well....everyone including him. So yeah, I am stuck. I'm scared she will give her a paci or a bottle. I have her on a Sippy cup now but she refuses to use it because she doesn't like it. Also, if I don't leave pumped bm I KNOW she will give her cows milk because she is just like that. Ugh....so scared and honestly I don't think I will have a good time at all knowing that my dd is in her care. Sorry.....vent over. Anyone else know how I feel?
Ok so for those that tried to under stand thank you. To the ones who insinuated I am a bad mom,buzz off. When I first joined this site people were understanding and honestly trying to help. Now it has become nothing but a bash fest in almost every group. I guess some think it's better for me to push and cause a fight that would not do any good at all and would only postpone the inevitable. Sorry my life isn't 100% dictated by me like some of you. I'm sorry I'm not perfect like some of you seem to think you are.
on Feb. 11, 2013 at 4:56 PM