Ok so for those that tried to under stand thank you. To the ones who insinuated I am a bad mom,buzz off. When I first joined this site people were understanding and honestly trying to help. Now it has become nothing but a bash fest in almost every group. I guess some think it's better for me to push and cause a fight that would not do any good at all and would only postpone the inevitable. Sorry my life isn't 100% dictated by me like some of you. I'm sorry I'm not perfect like some of you seem to think you are.