One of my best friends has two girls and NEVER even attempted breastfeeding. She says "she doesn't like to be touched"...(I have NO clue how she got pregnant then...lol) anyways. She always says "if it's so natural then why do so many moms struggle?" and when I say my baby isn't sleeping all night yet she says "I don't understand BFing moms, my kids slept through the night after 3 weeks...formula sits longer" She even gives her kids baby cereal at 2 months!!! I know I know...It's not my business...but she is pregnant again...and it's her last, (she has to have a hysterectomy after this one due to bad endo). I don't want her to miss out. I've told her that it's natural but it doesn't always come natural to all moms right away. I told her that bm doesn't "sit" as long as formula because it's SO perfect for baby. I even talk about how much I love it and the connection I feel with baby...I REALLY want her to just give it a try this time. I have to be careful not to be too pushy becuase she got upset about me just talking about it before and said "I just don't WANT to!" But...after talking to her she said she may try, just for a few months and mostly pump because she doesn't like the idea of putting baby to breast. But I also know this is mostly because she wants her breast to dry up less painfully...but I guess atleast baby would get SOME milk which is better than none...Any advice?
*Sorry so long!*