UPDATE: So its official...I'm going to stay with my bfs aunt so the family will still be close. She's the only one in family that agrees, with me, breast is best and no solids til 6 months and to not let her cry it out. She said my main focus is to stay home and feed her til lil bit older because she is underweight and has rare nursing cues. so Monday, ptt and tt clipping, if not then I'm going to go to annette to get it clipped so we can get her to gain sine weight so i can go back to work and not worry all the time but idk how to pump and work so i can keep my supply up. I will breastfeed at home and when I'm gone i will pump but she nurses every 2 hours...how can i do that without it affecting my supply and how much does she need? I'm going find part time job. If i was staying at my moms she said i need find job asap and get her off breastmilk 100% and on baby food completely. No way.
So mt updatebfs mom ssid she will talk to her gf about me and kids staying with them til,my bf gets money saved up for a house. Then i move back and did job (no point me getting Job 4 hrs away just to quit it 2 or so months when move back home. By then Autumn will be older to where my bf feels comfortable watching her and when weight gain isn't an issue. but we are far from the PTT appts i have set up. Hopefully they clup it Monday so i dont have to worry about it. Or, stay locally with his aunt and i can still go 2 apps and same doctor.
on Apr. 24, 2013 at 6:03 PM