DS2 was born last week. He's not taking to nursing well at ALL. The first day or two he did fine, but then he started getting really ornery about eating. I got really engorged and it hurt bad enough I was finally able to convince the nurse that I needed to pump. I, at one point, got a nice lecture about how I need to not feed him from a bottle, even if it's breastmilk, because then he won't take to the breast at all. He's still being stubborn, so I've had to supplement with breastmilk in a bottle in order to get him as much as he's supposed to be eating each day. He's getting even worse with breastfeeding (the nurse is seeming to be right). I'm only able to get him to do a full feeding once, maybe twice, each day. Other than that it's all in bottles.
Any ideas as to how to get him nursing well??? I really appreciate any help. I'm completely new to breast feeding - I couldn't do it with DS1 because he was in the NICU so long that my supply dried up before he could breast feed. Thank you!!!!!!!