Where did it go? This is my 3rd baby, but first time nursing. I have no drive at all. My poor husband is being a sweetheart about it, but I feel bad. My son is 4 months now (I also have a 6 and 4 year old). I am tired, but I have never felt like this before. I also had a tubal litigation at my C-section, so I wasn't sure which of these caused it. Not to mention I gained tons of weight that I have not been able to lose....Maybe it is a combination of all of the above...lol I am just curious if BF and low libido are related.