Working & nursing - nursling cries when I leave
I have a 3.5 month old. She will be 4 months on the 17th of September and she's EBF. I am a hairdresser and own my own business. I've been back to work since she's a month old and she eats pumped milk whenever I'm at work. I only work 2-3 days a week. We've always had bottle issues with her, she sometimes refuses it. But she's recently been crying, I should say screaming, when I leave. For example, tonight I went to work for 2 hours and she started screaming 5 minutes after I left and my husband is losing his mind. She has reflux and has always cried when she had gas so we always think its gas but I honestly don't know. She takes zantac and we give her colic calm. When she cries like this for the sitter (which is always either MIL or my husband) nothing works to calm her down :( she doesn't want a pacifier. It's breaks everyone heart to have her cry so bad.
I will say when she's happy she's very happy. They do have a lot of happy times throughout the day but she gets upset around eating or when she's tired bc she likes to comfort nurse. It's like then she realizes that I'm gone. But she loves playing during the day etc. it all seems to be at night or tired and eating related.
Help!! I don't know what to do or what I'm doing wrong :( do I need to stop working?