I would really really like to attend my friends wedding in november. problem being my husband is saying he cannot go :( that leaves me with some decisions. I can go completely by myself, but my concern is that my nursling will wean while i am gone. or rather, not want to come back to the breast when i return. i would be gone for 3 days. he will be 15.5 mos at the time. I really want to make it to 2 yrs. But taking him creates more stress/issues. DH will feel like i think he cannot handle both boys alone. the older will feel left out. if i take both then DH is even more hurt... and im not sure i can handle both of them by myself for 3 days now that theyre both walking. :( should i just suck it up and not go??