"Why aren't you giving him cereal yet--he needs it." ***ETA***
Unfortunately, we recently moved in with my grandmother (long story short = landlord wanted to sell the property and kicked us out). We have been there for less than a week, and already I'm getting told everything I'm doing wrong as a parent (I have two sons, one is almost 4, the other is almost 3 months).
Yesterday, grandma asked me if I was giving DS2 cereal yet... I said no (of course, being EBF). She then asked "Why not? He needs it." I explained to her that he doesn't need it since he is EBF. She asked me if he was sleeping through the night. I said, yes, but even if he wasn't he doesn't need cereal.
I am going to stand my ground, but it feels like I'm fighting generations of tradition now. What do I do??
**ETA** I should probably add that she ruined all of the nipples to the bottles we have by "cleaning" them with bleach because they "smelled." I work full time, so DS2 gets two bottles while I'm gone. She said she used the right combo of bleach and water, but I thought you can't even use bleach on nipples? Even if she used the right amount, they're ruined...