SO here is the story
My LO is 8 weeks old. I co-sleep with her because she doesn't like her crib. I also pick her up whenever she cries because I know something is wrong with her but I haven't gotten her cries down yet. My fiancé and parents say that I am going to spoil her or that I already have spoiled her. I personally don't think I am spoiling her. Note that I don't pick her up when she is just whimpering, only when she is actually crying.
Also my fiancé doesn't really watch her except for at night when she isn't crying, but when she starts crying he hands her to me and says can you help me. Then for example last night I hadn't eaten dinner yet because she was nonstop crying and I couldn't get her to stop, well he helped me for a few minutes then gave her back and I got her calm for a little then he went down stairs to eat. Well while he was gone she was screaming her head off, I tried feeding her, changing her diaper, changing her outfit, snuggling her, putting on her mobile while she laid down, walking with her, EVERYTHING but nothing worked. So I laid her down in her crib let her cry for a bit and put on her video monitor and went to grab a quick bite. While I was downstairs he pitched a fit like a two year old and stomped upstairs to get her. And got mad at me because I let her cry it out, which is what everyone has been yelling at me to do! But when I don't I get yelled at for not picking her up!
Am I spoiling her? Is it even possible to spoil her at such a young age? If not can I get some support I could really use it right now. How do I get her used to her crib?