Dh was there when I pumped before work yesterday and saw that I got less than two oz (I have a nasty cold and am having a hard time staying hydrated) and starts in on me that she's not getting enough and that's why she's crabby at night for him. All day when she nurses she's fine. I tried explaining that bm has a lot more calories and changes with baby's needs. She gets 4 oz formulA at bedtime which is usually half bm so 2 oz formula (it works for us- been doing it for 4 months now). I've told him to not give her any more so her stomach doesn't stretch. He's becoming less supportive now. He's said he wants me to stop at 6 months. Not happening. What else can I tell him to get him back on my side?
on Apr. 2, 2014 at 9:33 AM