Gave up with # 1, Determined to NOT with #2
I am out of places to ask and look for help. I have two kiddos. My first is almost 7 and I have a now today, 4 day old. I gave up with BF with my first due to everything in general but I've been so determined with this one to breastfeed her. But, we are having an issue with the big bird mouth and I can't even sandwhich it to enough to get in her tiny mouth. She's eating (we've been doing one breast at a time each feeding), we had a horrific scene where we did both and she threw it up EVERYWHERE and now her little belly is finally back to normal. I tried pumping but must not be doing it right even after being shown and directions because I didnt even get an ounce last night. They are so sore, and I've been using the cream for them, but literally I cry when she latches on and starts sucking because I hurt so bad. Any suggeestions. Annnd also....for her little tummys sake and mine because I eat EVERYTHING normally...what foods do you reccomend to avoid to avoid sour tummy and gas for her.