help!

[soontobemommy22]

I have 2 kids. Taylor is 3 and Caden is 2. They don't listen worth nothing. When they are home with me just me they listen most of the time. but if other people are here at our apartment its nope not going to listen to mommy. How can I get my kids to listen to me when otter people are around.

I love my toddlers I really do I know that God only gives us what we can handle. Some times I feel like I am not meant to be a momma. I can't imagine my life with our kids. Patrick either fpr that matter. I know There are going to be trying times but I really need to lean on God and my Christian friends

[LiveBreatheSing]

 Just because your kids are defiant doesn't mean that you are a bad mother. God wouldn't have blessed you with two beautiful children if He didn't have the full confidence that you could care for them. And I am assuming that their physical needs are more than met, so that makes you a good mommy

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for your little munchkins, I'm new to the toddler thing myself, but I hope you can find a little encouragement. They're not toddlers forever ;)

[soontobemommy22]

thank you! you made my day today is starting off to be a great day. They woke up at 9:30  and are in great moods. So far is going to be a great  day. I hope its pretty day so I can take the kids out to play and it doesn't rain.

Quoting LiveBreatheSing:

 Just because your kids are defiant doesn't mean that you are a bad mother. God wouldn't have blessed you with two beautiful children if He didn't have the full confidence that you could care for them. And I am assuming that their physical needs are more than met, so that makes you a good mommy

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for your little munchkins, I'm new to the toddler thing myself, but I hope you can find a little encouragement. They're not toddlers forever ;)