So back in 2007 I got pregnant with my twins. When I told my husband (then boyfriend) he was less then happy about it. He was going to leave then came around and even though he wasn't excited about it he came to terms with it. He now says he regrets how he felt back then and is thankful we have the boys. After they were born I was supposed to get fixed but the nurse ended up talking me out of it. At that time I wasn't sure I was done having kids. As the years went on I became content with the kids I have. We have 2 kids from his previous marrige and 1 from mine plus our two together. I did get an IUD after the twins but it fell out a few months after. So we have just been using the pull out method. It as worked for the last 4 years. Well this month AF never came. I told DH that my period was late and he just flat out said he is not having any more kids. He has always "joked" that if I got pregnant again he would run away to Mexico. I'm scared to tell him I already took a test and it's a BFP. I don't know where to go with this. If I need to give him time and see if he comes around again but what if he doesn't? I'm on the fence about an abortion... I think I would hate myself and him for wanting me to get one if I did. I was also thinking about adoption... Would it be weird though since we already have kids? Would this baby think we are bad people when he/she grows up? I need advice.