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Chris Brown Forgiveness at the Grammy's Goes Way Too Far. Do You Agree?

Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:31 AM
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Chris Brown Forgiveness at the Grammy's Goes Way Too Far

Posted by Adriana Velez

chris brown grammys 2012I don't know about you, but I wasn't thrilled with all the love Chris Brown got at the Grammy's. It's only been 3 years since he beat up then-girlfriend Rihanna. But there he was, performing not just once but TWICE, getting more airtime than the Whitney Houston tribute! And then they gave him a standing ovation and a Grammy. What the hell?!?

I don't get it. We're supposed to just move on like that, after only 3 years? And why are people so ENTHUSIASTIC about forgiving Chris, anyway? It's like they're welcoming back a war hero and not a guy who beat his girlfriend to a pulp.

But it gets worse. Buzzfeed caught a rash of tweets from women saying super-disturbing things about Chris Brown. "Everyone shut up about Chris Brown being a woman beater... shiiittt he can beat me up all night if we wants." "I'd let Christ Brown beat me up anytime ;)" Seriously? And you're adding an emoticon to that? Is it because you're JOKING? Or did someone pay these women to say this? People who want to forgive and forget -- I get that. But asking for more? That's just sick.

Thanks a lot, ladies. Good job feeding that myth that violence against women is a turn-on. Way to represent.

I agree with Jenni Meyer's post in Crushable. I am not okay with all this big, loud Chris Brown love. I am not ready to just forget the Chris Brown beat the hell out of a woman. But obviously his producers and backers really, really want us to get the hell over it already because there's serious cash to be made here. And those of us who are still pissed at Chris Brown are just getting in the way.

For the music industry to look at their watches, shrug and say "oh well, it's been 3 years," and then welcome him back with ecstatic open arms is just disrespectful to women. They're saying, "Shut up and take your lumps. YOU DON'T MATTER." And I can't believe so many women, especially, are screaming YES to more Chris. But I guess it's what we can expect from an industry that is always asking us to look the other way at lyrics that are violent toward women.

 

How do you feel about Chris Brown's reception at the Grammy's?

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motha2daDuchess
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:50 AM
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I still think there is more to the story...like she hit him first...I think everyone needs to get over it already...

.Bubbles.
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:43 PM

She hit him first is never an excuse to beat someone like he did Rihanna.

That said I thought his first performance was less than stellar.  There was very little applause when he won the grammy and his second performance was really supposed to be more about David Guetta.  So this assessment isn't totally fair.  I would have liked to see a lot less of him though.

gmadiane
by Diane on Feb. 13, 2012 at 1:00 PM

I did not watch but my opinion of any man that hits a woman is not good

luvmycuddiebugs
by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 1:57 PM

I can not stand him.

motha2daDuchess
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:07 PM

it is a reason, I am of the logical thought process, if you hit a man, expect to be hit like a man...

trippyhippy
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:40 PM

I think he's an asshole and I just don't think he's that talented at all.

Hannahluvsdogs
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 2:52 PM

The fact that he won a Grammy doesn't bother me. The award is for his work, not his personal life.

egyptian_mommy
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:15 PM
Well...I didn't and still don't think we got or will ever get the whole story about what happened. I'm not saying there's any excuse for what he did because there isn't. But, we don't know if she said or did something that made him temporarily snap. It's always been 100% of the blame on him and while I agree he is 100% responsible for his own actions, we don't know what truly happened in that car. That being said, I wasn't impressed with his performance and I'm not really a fan.
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lilbit53009
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:16 PM
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this. plus they've been secretly dating for the past year (or so i've heard, but tend to believe). 

everyone needs to get over it and let them both move on with their lives 

Quoting motha2daDuchess:

I still think there is more to the story...like she hit him first...I think everyone needs to get over it already...

 

sara_7106
by Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 3:24 PM
Not a fan
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