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IT'S BEEN 5 MONTHS WITHOUT SEX..WHATS WRONG WITH ME!

jfantasy

May. 14, 2008 at 2:34 AM by jfantasy
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         Me and my husband has not had sex since my IUD has expired and that was in january. I do masturbate but i haven't felt like doing that either..Whats wrong with me?..My poor hubby's been wanting it but i tell him that I'm on my period or that I'm to tired or that I'm scared of getting pregnant any excuse not to do it!..That's not like me at all..I'm very much still in love with my husband and i do want to give it to him but I'm just not in the mood..I wish there was something out there that woman can take to put them in the mood.

                 
                                    
 
          
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try4happy

by try4happy on May. 14, 2008 at 2:37 AM

drinking always puts me in the mood.
zaidensmama

by zaidensmama on May. 14, 2008 at 2:38 AM

Wow you need to have it removed  and get a new one in place

Proud Mama to Zaiden

~*Is this what love is all about am I getting in to deep wouldnt want to freak you out make a promise I cant keep so close your eyes and hum along and I will sing you one more love song*~

thinkpinky

by thinkpinky on May. 14, 2008 at 2:41 AM

Maybe thinking more, fantasizing, getting into it... think about sex inm whatever way that used to get you in the mood. Picture your own orgasm and go with the flow... sex talk to YOURSELF. that oughtta do it!

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texassummer

by texassummer on May. 14, 2008 at 2:42 AM

 

Omg get off here and go give it up to you poor hubby!!! You need to keep your man happy and 5 months without sex you have to be joking. I give it up when I’m not in the mood all the time to keep my hubby satisfied. God my hubby would have raped me by now lol.

RENEEnCOLLIN

by RENEEnCOLLIN on May. 14, 2008 at 2:58 AM

MY SUGGESTION IS TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR. SIMPLE RIGHT...JUST ASK AS MANY QUESTIONS AS YOU CAN THINK OF. WRITE THEM DOWN AND TAKE NOTES WHILE YOU ARE ASKING YOUR DOCTOR. HE/SHE WONT MIND. AND IF THEY DO WELL TOUGH. YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT YOUR OPTIONS ARE...AND TRUST ME. YOU DO HAVE OPTIONS.

GOOD LUCK! TAKE CARE

ALWAYS,
RENEE

jfantasy

by jfantasy on May. 14, 2008 at 3:08 AM

I wonder if it can be all the meds i take for my diabetes,,
Quoting RENEEnCOLLIN:

MY SUGGESTION IS TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR. SIMPLE RIGHT...JUST ASK AS MANY QUESTIONS AS YOU CAN THINK OF. WRITE THEM DOWN AND TAKE NOTES WHILE YOU ARE ASKING YOUR DOCTOR. HE/SHE WONT MIND. AND IF THEY DO WELL TOUGH. YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT YOUR OPTIONS ARE...AND TRUST ME. YOU DO HAVE OPTIONS.

GOOD LUCK! TAKE CARE

ALWAYS,
RENEE

carmela37

by carmela37 on May. 14, 2008 at 3:43 AM

Nice-its not an obligation to have sex with you husband and or boyfriend-talk to your ob-gyn, I know one of my girlfriends takes a medicine for her hormones and it gets her in the mood-is there anything thats bothering you mentally right now? Stress always gets in the way of my sex life, but my hormones usually kick in at some point in time-good luck!!
Quoting texassummer:

 

Omg get off here and go give it up to you poor hubby!!! You need to keep your man happy and 5 months without sex you have to be joking. I give it up when I’m not in the mood all the time to keep my hubby satisfied. God my hubby would have raped me by now lol.

myapie02

by myapie02 on May. 14, 2008 at 3:50 AM

What about watching porn or a movie with a sexy actor that you love!

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