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This is absolutely the worst day of my life, please pray (piog) *UPDATE*

Posted by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:17 AM
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 My grampa is in his last stage...hes been batteling cancer for 4 years and just when we thought he was getting better, he just crashed. yesterday was very hard and today is even worse. he can't open his eyes or respond but hes finally not in anymore pain like he was yesterday. im extremely close to my grandparents since i lived with them for a while, they have done so much for me and i appreciate every single thing theyve ever done for me. His birthday is saturday which is very sad, he'll be 74. please keep him in your prayers so he doesn't have to suffer much longer.

Thank you everyone for all your thoughts and prayers...i just know they helped. my grampa passed out about an hour an and a half ago..he had his wife and children and sister and me around him, personally i was holding his hand. i didn't even know he was gone until my uncle said he had stopped breathing and i felt his hand relax. He is in a better place now and im thankful for that...my grampa meant a lot to me, he let me stay here when i couldn't live at my house and wouldn't let my mom put me in a daycare when i was little because he wanted to watch me (he and my grandma). I know its weird being on the internet when a loved one just died but i can't talk face to face with people yet not even family...its too hard and i cry too much.

thank you again for all your prayers. <3


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Posted by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:17 AM
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allsolittle
by Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:21 AM

I am very sorry. You and yours are in my prayers. It is hard, i've been there.

crystal626rose
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:22 AM

im sorryGod Bless you and your family .... stay strong.

fairyshyone
by Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:32 AM

Praying for you and your family. 

"Worry  looks around, sorry looks back, Faith looks up."
mandarose
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 11:38 AM

I am so sorry you are going through this. I lost my grandpa two years ago from lung cancer. It's really hard to see a loved one go through something like that. I am glad he's not in any pain though. The only thing you can really do for him is to let him know that he is loved and it's ok to not fight anymore. My grandpa struggled for a while trying to stay alive and it was so hard for us. Once he knew it was ok for him to go and that we would all be ok and that we loved him deeply he was able to go in peace. I am here for you if you'd like to talk. I've been there and it is extremely difficult.  {{HUGS}}



sexeegyrl
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 3:57 PM

He is in my prayers

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Mom2LiamNMolly
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 4:10 PM

You have our thoughts and prayers for sure! Grandfathers are amazing people in our lives, aren;t they? I lost my Grandpa John 11 years ago this coming December 4th and it still hurts like hell. I miss him so much.... 

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katiegirl
by Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2009 at 8:40 PM

I'm sorry, I hope he doesn't have to suffer for long. Must be painful. 

Katmommy27
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:02 PM

I know this doesn't mean much coming from a compleate stranger but my prayers are with you and your family. I only wish that I would have had that great kind of relationship with my grandparents.  Make sure that you tell him whether you think that he can hear you or not how much you love him....

Kat

jessicalew
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:05 PM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I lost my grandma 3 yrs ago to cancer and just lost my grandpa  this past april on my bday.

scubamom30
by on Nov. 23, 2009 at 9:38 PM

I'm so sorry, I'll keep your family in my prayers!

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