He made me leave! Need advice some cussing and kinda long!!PLEASE HeLP!!!

[AshleyandBaby]

So about a few weeks ago my "best friend" told my husband i cheated on him, but lets go back for a minute, when my friend and I first started hanging out shetold me that My husband and i arent ment to be together and we should just get a divorce. MY husband loves her son and she loved that, she has been wanting to get with him for awhile. Now back to the present my husband and i were trying to work things out and make things better but he kept fucking with my head! one day it would be i love u i wanna be with u and then the next day he wants me gone. That went on for about three weeks. And then he just kicked me out last saturday. He says that i wasnt a good wife, because i dont know how to cook and he couldnt come home to a hott meal everynight and he hated how i would go hang out with my "friends" during the day while he was at work. I just need some advice on what i should do to try and make my marriage work! ne thing would be helpful or just a simple hug from you guys would make me feel better. i love my husband with all my heart and i would never cheat on him. Please give me some advice on how to be a better wife!

[whoda_thunk]

So, did you cheat on him?

[Mynesha]

Sounds like you two dont need to be together. My only piece of advice if I were you is that I know I sure as hell wouldnt' have let anyone put me out of my home. He can't make you leave. He can call the police but they'll just laugh at him. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, he can leave....

[AshleyandBaby]

No i didnt cheat on him i love him with all my heart and the problem is that we were staying at his moms house until we could get back on our feet soo he kicked me out and im soo fuckin sad

[avp_2907]

we have been threw almost the same kinda thing. mine... more complicated. i hate 2 say but he is makeing excuses 2 leave u. he wants 2 b with sum1 else. thats y he kickd u out. an he dsnt say i love u anymore. id leave now b4 he jus stays with u jus 2 make u happy. cuz then he will cheat...if he isnt already... u can always find sum1 better. i knw i have an i love my man with all my heart. im so glad i left my ex. it was hard but i can actually say it was worth it!

[michellelee3708]

 Ashley, you couldn't have been a better wife! Damn it, you were a great wife and mother. Does he realize that without you, your son would like...die? Because he sure wouldn't know how to take care of Caden!! lol I'm sorry, I love you, and I wish things were going your way, but I just really don't like Jon right now =( I don't like the way he's treating you...and he doesn't deserve a wife like you!! You need to stay strong...and if he doesn't love you enough to believe you when you're telling him you didn't cheat on him...then there's no trust...if he honestly thinks you'd do that..why would you want to be with him? I know you love him, I know this...and I also know how well he knows how to push your buttons and make you cry. And that's not fair. I saw you cry more in the little time I was out there because of him...than I had ever seen you cry the whole time I have known you! I love you baby, and I hope things turn out the way you'd like...and if not...you know I'm always here for you!!

[AshleyandBaby]

BUMP...PLEASE I NEED ADVICE, HELP, OR SUPPORT

[Amiss67]

I'm sorry but I have to agree... if he is making excuses and saying things like "you're a terrible wife, no hot meal when he gets home" etc....he's looking for an 'out'. I'm sorry that is not what you want to hear, but it sure sounds that way! And to kick YOU out? Ridiculous! I agree...he wants out, let him be the one to leave!

[la_bella_vita]

I'm sorry you are going through this, I'm here if you need someone to talk to! Good luck! 

[AngelCodysMom]

[Dawnness]

The usual thinking that if your SO is believing and accusing YOU of cheating...than he is the one doing the actual cheating.  (Or he jumped on it for a way out.)

I know it's hard to give up a relationship that has alot of history, but in the end it will be best for you and your son.

Think... do you want you son to see you sad all the time? see Daddy treating Mommy like shit? see you two fighting constantly?

If you can't think past your love for him, than think in term of what's best for you son and your love for your son.