Please help me!

[katiee987]

Some of you may have read my question I posted as anon. My boyfriend has been talking to me online thinking I'm another girl...it went so far as I had a friend talk to him on the phone and he thought it was the girl from the internet. He wants to meet her, and possibly LEAVE me for HER!!

What do I do? Cuz if I confront him...it'll get turned around on me...and I'll be the jerk, not him. And he'll end up leaving ME. What would you ladies do?

 

I'm losing my effin mind. I don't know what to do. It's driving me nuts to think that this guy I sleep next to every night is capable of being so cruel. And I'm so shocked...and I just don't know what to do. He'll be home from work a little after midnight, thats like a half hour away, I just don't know how to react. What would you do??

[ForeverMeme]

Be glad he's only your boyfriend and never make him your husband. Confront him, he isn't worth your time. You deserve so much more but only you can make that happen. 

[BaileynMe]

I find it funny that he's thinking of leaving you for you. 

How the heck did you get into this situation? I mean, why are you masquerading as someone else? That screams of dishonesty just as badly as his potential cheating. 

Come clean and fess up. Honestly I think you're just as at fault as he is. 

[Dawnness]

Weither you confess or not... I would just leave.

Obviously you've had doubts in the first place, otherwise you would have never did the fake girl. Plus, he has interest in this "girl".

Just leave. Tell him something like it just isn't working for you, or you've come to realize your not ready for serious relationship,....something along those lines.

If you want, later when the relationship is done, tell him about the fake girl. Hell, he may even figure it out when this "girl" no longer responds to him (if he hasn't figured it out already and is waiting to see what you do...)

[Cara5]

Did you just "bump into him" online, or did you suspect he was doing something wrong and pretend to be someone else to catch him?  

Either way, nothing good can possibly come of this unless you can both sit down and have an open honest conversation.  

[EireLass]

Quoting BaileynMe:

I find it funny that he's thinking of leaving you for you. 

How the heck did you get into this situation? I mean, why are you masquerading as someone else? That screams of dishonesty just as badly as his potential cheating. 

Come clean and fess up. Honestly I think you're just as at fault as he is. 

This.

[sassy43082]

You need to arrange a meeting with him and catch him in the act....

[DEMITRIALICE]

 I mean if hes willing to leave you for a fake girl think how fast he will leave you when a real one comes along.. i mean i know that sucks..but seriously

[blsdbyangel07]

IMO I would confront him and the second he tries to turn the tables and make it out like you're the bad guy break up with him and leave.  He isn't worth your time mama and you deserve better!  Even though he never really cheated he still had every intention on doing so and anyone deserves better than that!  Best of luck to you  :) 

[marriedmomma3]

 fuck him... leave him.  when he asks you why show him the print outs and get him the fuck out your house.... duh

[rosa_lee]

Honey your boyfriend is talking to somebody that he possibly wants to leave you for and you're worried about being the jerk? Let him go sweety. That boy is not worth your time. If he loved you at all he would not be carrying on inappropriately with somebody else.