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Friends with ex-bf's family......

Posted by on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:18 PM
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Is it wrong for me to still be friends with my ex-bf's female cousins....btw he is also the father of our son........Do you think I am disrespecting my current bf.....we have been together for like 7 yrs now.  I talk to them every now  and then...they call me, I may call them.  I mean hey...were all grown, its not like he's (my sons dad) there.  My bf thinks Im wrong and that the topic of me and friends conversation is their cousin....Just recently I went to San Diego for the weekend with one of them, but I didnt tell my bf,  bc I knew he would be mad at me! 

Posted by on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:18 PM
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sccowgirl
by on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:21 PM

No, I think it is fine.  It is your son's family.   I think it is better to be friends than to not get along.

WanziesMommie
by Bronze Member on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:25 PM

Thank you.....I so agree! I told my bf that and he said that I dont have to actually "hang" with them... 

Quoting sccowgirl:

No, I think it is fine.  It is your son's family.   I think it is better to be friends than to not get along.


Elyce225
by Ruby Member on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:30 PM

I think it's fine. Tell your boyfriend to shut it ;) My husband is best friends with his ex's brother and it doesn't bother me at all. It's not like my hubsband sees his ex or hangs out with her. He is an adult and makes his on choices, I'm not going to tell him who to be friends with.

YoungMommy182
by on Nov. 29, 2009 at 5:31 PM

if your new bf/hubby/SO  is fine with it then its ok...


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