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Serious question...can you change your wedding date?

Posted by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:36 PM
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At the time I didn't think of our wedding date..I just knew I wanted to be married a year to the day my husband asked me to marry him...well that date is February 15th...here's what the date means to me.

1) It's PRESIDENTS DAY and schools are closed, so for the next 18 years we will have all 4 children home all day on our anniversary...not so romantic lol

2) I totally screwed myself over for Valentine's Day....I don't even have one anymore lol

3) It's right after Christmas and we are still trying to recover financially from Xmas

4) We are also saving money to pay our property taxes during the month of February, so needless to say our anniversary pretty much sucks lol

SO, CAN WE CHANGE OUR WEDDING DATE?  lol

I'm a SAHM to 4 children, Mommy to Irish Twins, married to my best friend, breastfeeding, circumsizing, anti CIO, spanking when needed, kids don't get away with much, NIP and don't care what you see b/c my child has a right to eat, keep a clean house, non husband bashing, LOVE to laugh, smart ass kind of Mommy. Nice to meet you.

"Natural feeding is the duty of every
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Posted by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:36 PM
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atlmom2
by Susie on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:39 PM

Every 7 years it will be on a Monday and throw leap year in, who knows.  I say  do it and don't worry about it.  I haven't gotten a thing for Valentines day in 25 year of marriage anyway. 

There are less expensive way to celebrate your anniversary.  IF you really want to change it go ahead. 

kristin_1984
by Bronze Member on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:39 PM

bump

glitterteaz
by Member on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:44 PM

sure get a divorce and then remarry on a date that is less complicated!! LOL

sexeegyrl
by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:45 PM

LOL - hey that's a great idea!!!! lol Argh - I wish I would have thought things through a little better before we got married on Feb 15 th lol No wonder my husband was all for getting married THAT day, he knew everything already lol

Quoting glitterteaz:

sure get a divorce and then remarry on a date that is less complicated!! LOL


I'm a SAHM to 4 children, Mommy to Irish Twins, married to my best friend, breastfeeding, circumsizing, anti CIO, spanking when needed, kids don't get away with much, NIP and don't care what you see b/c my child has a right to eat, keep a clean house, non husband bashing, LOVE to laugh, smart ass kind of Mommy. Nice to meet you.

"Natural feeding is the duty of every
mother and the birthright of every child"

"While breastfeeding may not seem the right choice for every parent, it is the best choice for every baby." ~Amy Spangler

FooLynRoo
by Bronze Member on Feb. 10, 2010 at 2:59 PM

We dont celebrate our wedding anniversary at all.

We do celebrate our DATING anniversary though.

 

JuliaW
by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 3:01 PM

We share the same anniversary! I do get Valentine's Day though, I insist ;)

sexeegyrl
by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 3:12 PM

Do you celebrate Valentine's along side your anniversary or do you have 2 seperate dates/nights out?

Quoting JuliaW:

We share the same anniversary! I do get Valentine's Day though, I insist ;)


I'm a SAHM to 4 children, Mommy to Irish Twins, married to my best friend, breastfeeding, circumsizing, anti CIO, spanking when needed, kids don't get away with much, NIP and don't care what you see b/c my child has a right to eat, keep a clean house, non husband bashing, LOVE to laugh, smart ass kind of Mommy. Nice to meet you.

"Natural feeding is the duty of every
mother and the birthright of every child"

"While breastfeeding may not seem the right choice for every parent, it is the best choice for every baby." ~Amy Spangler

jean_marie1987
by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 3:17 PM

I think you can change it if both of you want to. 

VintageWife
by on Feb. 10, 2010 at 3:19 PM

You can set another date that you will celebrate it. This year we probably won't celebrate our anniversary on the actual date cause it is one week before my due date. We may celebrate it one month early so we don't have to worry about anything coming up. I am just excited we get to celebrate it at all cause the military has always kept us apart on that day :)

Marimaru
by Sarah Joy on Feb. 10, 2010 at 4:01 PM

Pick another date at a convenient time, call it mom and dad's day (or something) and do something special.  If you pick a certain date, it can become a tradition :)

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