Today Sucked

[eryn.stocks]

I woke up at 6 am to DS2 screaming and DS1 (who is 20 months old) finger painting with his poo on the wall then at about noon maybe one in the afternoon DH finally woke up came into the living room told me that i didn't do a very good job of keeping the boys quiet then he sat there and played the computer til it was time for him to shower then go to work and now he doesn't get home til 1 am, What a lovely Valentines day this has been i didn't get anything at all not a card any kinda gift at all hell i didn't even get a happy valentines day from him hell he even left for work without saying i love you (mind you he texted me a few hours after he got to work and it said sorry i forgot to tell you i love you before i left but still) and odds are he won't have anything for me for valentines day when he gets home either and i even made him his favorite cookies today and i'm going to make him something to eat and put it in the fridge for him

sorry long vent but im done now

[sped985]

im sorry you had such a bad valentines day today. if it make you feel any better mine was crappy too. dh and i decided together to make each other something (even if it was just a cheesy card) and only spend $10-$15 on supplies. I put a lot of time into making him a bracelet (but a manly one) because he wanted one. he came home from work at 7:30am with nothing. not even a card. then he slept for 2 hours, got up for 1 hour and went to bed to sleep for work tonight. I dont think men realize that valentines day is a day to celebrate your love for your SO. And its hurtful when they dont even acknowledge it, expecially after you put so much time and thought into it for them. I hope your dh appreciates the things you did for him on valentines day. 

[eryn.stocks]

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[sped985]

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[eryn.stocks]

that is if he even remembers my birthday, he forgot it last year the only reason he remembered is because we were in california (we live in utah) for a family reunion and my grandma surprised me with a cake on my birthday then later that day while we were on the beach he came over and said i think your grandma got it wrong your birthday is next month isn't it? i wanted to smack him

Quoting sped985:

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[sped985]

Oh my, I would be so mad. I'm sorry. You should set little reminders for him, I do that with DH. He has our anniversary tattooed on his chest, yet i still have to give him several reminders that its comming up.

I know it sucks having to remind him of your birthday and other important days, but at least he will be prepared for the day.  

Quoting eryn.stocks:

that is if he even remembers my birthday, he forgot it last year the only reason he remembered is because we were in california (we live in utah) for a family reunion and my grandma surprised me with a cake on my birthday then later that day while we were on the beach he came over and said i think your grandma got it wrong your birthday is next month isn't it? i wanted to smack him

Quoting sped985:

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[eryn.stocks]

i have a reminder set on his phone for my birthday and our anniversary so hopefully he remembers

Quoting sped985:

Oh my, I would be so mad. I'm sorry. You should set little reminders for him, I do that with DH. He has our anniversary tattooed on his chest, yet i still have to give him several reminders that its comming up.

I know it sucks having to remind him of your birthday and other important days, but at least he will be prepared for the day.  

Quoting eryn.stocks:

that is if he even remembers my birthday, he forgot it last year the only reason he remembered is because we were in california (we live in utah) for a family reunion and my grandma surprised me with a cake on my birthday then later that day while we were on the beach he came over and said i think your grandma got it wrong your birthday is next month isn't it? i wanted to smack him

Quoting sped985:

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[sped985]

haha hopefully, good luck. 

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i have a reminder set on his phone for my birthday and our anniversary so hopefully he remembers

Quoting sped985:

Oh my, I would be so mad. I'm sorry. You should set little reminders for him, I do that with DH. He has our anniversary tattooed on his chest, yet i still have to give him several reminders that its comming up.

I know it sucks having to remind him of your birthday and other important days, but at least he will be prepared for the day.  

Quoting eryn.stocks:

that is if he even remembers my birthday, he forgot it last year the only reason he remembered is because we were in california (we live in utah) for a family reunion and my grandma surprised me with a cake on my birthday then later that day while we were on the beach he came over and said i think your grandma got it wrong your birthday is next month isn't it? i wanted to smack him

Quoting sped985:

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[eryn.stocks]

yeah we will see

Quoting sped985:

haha hopefully, good luck. 

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i have a reminder set on his phone for my birthday and our anniversary so hopefully he remembers

Quoting sped985:

Oh my, I would be so mad. I'm sorry. You should set little reminders for him, I do that with DH. He has our anniversary tattooed on his chest, yet i still have to give him several reminders that its comming up.

I know it sucks having to remind him of your birthday and other important days, but at least he will be prepared for the day.  

Quoting eryn.stocks:

that is if he even remembers my birthday, he forgot it last year the only reason he remembered is because we were in california (we live in utah) for a family reunion and my grandma surprised me with a cake on my birthday then later that day while we were on the beach he came over and said i think your grandma got it wrong your birthday is next month isn't it? i wanted to smack him

Quoting sped985:

Hopefully he will make up for it on mothers day or v-day next year or something.

Quoting eryn.stocks:

i know we just moved into the place were living now and i had already started making his cookies and realized i was a cup short of sugar so i went to our neighbors house (i didn't know them) and asked for it and i got luck that she was just the nicest lady ever and we have only been married 2 years so i guess he still has times to learn 

[MixedCooke]

yep, I know what you mean.  I got nothing and although he said that he said it, I dont remember him saying anything at all!  he told his parents something that I was not ready to tell them and specifically asked him not to tell them this morning and he completely ignored me and did it anyway!  I did jack$hit for him because he did absolutely nothing for me!  I am over it though because it should be every day and not just one day if you truly love someone.

[jerzeetomato]

 Truly, if you need to be acknowledged on Valentines Day to know you are loved, then your relationship is off kilter.  It's nice to get a little something extra special on Valentines Day from your SO, but you should already know everyday that you are loved and appreciated.

Quoting MixedCooke:

yep, I know what you mean.  I got nothing and although he said that he said it, I dont remember him saying anything at all!  he told his parents something that I was not ready to tell them and specifically asked him not to tell them this morning and he completely ignored me and did it anyway!  I did jack$hit for him because he did absolutely nothing for me!  I am over it though because it should be every day and not just one day if you truly love someone.