My 6 year old doesn't have a hamper in his room, he knows that he has to put his dirty clothes in the hamper that we have in our bedroom.
Well, I locked our door so he couldn't get in and I guess I didn't close the door all the way because after my son was done getting dressed, he was able to open the locked door.
I was on top of my SO, of course, naked, I can't remember if I had the blankets on me the whole way.
My son just walked in like nothing was going on put his clothes in the hamper and started walking out. We both just starred at him. He looked back and said, "what?"
my SO said, "you have to knock on the door before you come in." and then he said, "I'm beating your mom" and my son said, "oh." and then my SO said, "I'm just joking, I'm not beating your mom." we both panicked.
I didn't know what to say but then said to my son, "why don't you go into the livingroom and watch tv." and he asked, "why?"
I said, "so that we can get dressed."
so my son left the room. My SO and I got dressed and then my son came back into the room.
my SO said to my son, "that's why we tell you to knock on the door before you come in. we were both naked. I know that you don't mind if you see your mom naked and she's fine with that. but i don't want you to see me naked."
My SO went to work, and I finished helping my son get ready for school. The whole time I acted likenothing happened but I was so, so embarrassed. The weird thing is my son never asked us or me what we were doing. It's like he doesn't even know if something happened.
I wanted to ask him when it was just the 2 of us if he knows what was going on in the bedroom, but i didn't want to make a big deal out of it if he didn't think anything of it. Um.......I didn't want to bring it to his attention if he was totally oblivious to what was going on.
I just want to let everyone know that this was an accident. I honestly didn't mean for it to happen. I feel bad about the whole situation. I'm not one of those moms who purposely have sex with my son standing there in the bedroom. I thought that the door was locked and I should have double checked to make sure it was. I just wanted to post this because I'm so, so embarrassed about this and I guess I'm just looking for reassurance that this doesn't make me a bad mother.
what would you have done if this happened to you?
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