please some one help me out, cause i feel like i'm about to burst. = (
I posted this in answers but i got bashed more than i got help. Please no bashing, just help. here is the sit.
about 2-3 wks ago i confronted ym mom,dad and sis about a rumaor that had begun about sis whoa had supposedly been seen by someone with one of dh's friends brother, well it turned out it wasn't true that these two ( my sis and guy) had seen each other but it is true that they were flirting and what not. to make matters worse my sis blamed it on dh's two other friends who had no idea what so ever what was going on. Now let me tell you some bg info on my sis and parents: they cover up all of her mistakes, make excuses when dhe F's up and act like she is perfect, it has been like this all of both our lives, she is the prodigy child in other words. so when she does something wrong they're always like poor... we'll call her sally for now, poor sally her dh is in mexico, she didn't mean it or poor sally she's stressed out cause she doesn't know wheb dh is going to get greencard, a couple of beers won't hurt her. see my point. And my dad is old fashioned to the point that he believes a married woman should not be allowed to have guy friends and has stated in front of entire fam. including her that isf he ever found out she was talkin/seeing/ communicating with any other guy that isn't her dh in his house he'd kick her ass out.
so this is where my dear sis blames my dh's 2 bf for the rumor and my dad wanted to kick they're asses, my dad is 53 with no reason to try to kick 2 34-34 yr olds asses, she did this so he wouldn't see that it's true that she is talking to other guy who was the one who started the whole damn thing. so dh's bf call dh all upset he expalins what's going on, dh calls me and yells at ME for stupid sis calling them. so i call sis and yell at her for blaming 2 innocent pple for her shit! now my mom,dad and sis are upset with me, i haven't been invited tofathers day and now my mom wants me to apologize to sis. like i said before if she wants to cheat fine, but i yelled at her to leave other pple out of it, this is why i yelled at her. was i wrong? i'm just tired of being her scapegoat for her mistakes. what do i do? what do i say please someone help me. this is tearing me apart.