oh man i do not know what to do. My DD is 7 and has had one sleepover that was non family and i was a reck!!! i stressed and worried the entire time she was gone. she called crying at one point but said she didnt want to come home she just missed me. Of course that made me stress even more. the next day when she got home she was NOT herself at all. i worried something had happened to her. I later found out she had been up until after 1am and she was so tired, that was why she was acting different. Anyway she now has this other friend who has stayed at our house overnight before asking if she can spend the night at her house. Dh dosent want her to stay over there he said he didnt like the feel of the people hes seen going over there. I do not like to lie. Also if i say no this time she will continue to keep asking. the mother has also said my DS can come if he wants to she has three boys around his age (my son is 9). I dont know what to do. If i just say to her "no i dont want my child sleeping at your house" then she will be angy as i would be too if someone told me that after my child had stay at their house. But i dont want to keep making up excuses everytime the mother calls to ask if my daughter can stay over.Heres another part of my issue. Im not sure housw i feel about it. Usually the girl calls and talks to my DD then the girls give the phone to us moms to talk about playing or sleepovers. But this time the mother just text me : can dd spend the nght tonigh? then sent another text after that stating:ds can come too if he'd like too! what do you ladies think?